“通常（也许）关系出現问題或有冲突，是因為爱有期待，期待对方相应的回饋…
能夠…無条件的爱…的人不多！”
他回应﹕
“其实我有点好奇﹕那些能够付出无条件的爱的人，到底是怎么做到的？他们的原生家庭又是如何影响他们的？抑或这只是他们本身的 born temperament（气質）或累世的修行修来的？”
我又留言﹕
“一位我只能從佛書知曉的佛陀，对世间有情的慈爱...
一位我只能從報导认识的 Mother Teresa，对贫病苦者的关爱…
一位我接触過的及阅读他書藉的台湾曾昭旭教授兼作家，对两性爱情的剖析... 我推薦阅读他的其中一本著作＜永遠的浪漫爱＞。”
不过我给自己補充，我還是要说﹕要做到…無条件的爱…確是不那么的容易、簡單！我还在学习中…
‘爱在天堂’, A friend posted in his blog on the subject: Love Relationship. I commented in his blog:
“Normally (Perhaps), if a relationship is having a problem or conflict, it is because love is conditional; you expect a return or feedback from your loved one…
Not many people…are able to…love unconditionally!
He replied:
“In fact, I wonder: of those who are able to love unconditionally, how could they do it? How has their nuclear family influenced them? Or is that their born (natural) temperament or merits from several past lives?”
I commented again:
“I can only know Buddha from Buddhist books; a person who loves all life on earth with compassion…
I can only know Mother Teresa from media; a person who loved poor and sick patients with care…
I met Dr Tseng and read some of his books. He is a professor and author from
However, I would add another sentence for myself. I still want to say: It is not easy or simple…being able to…love unconditionally! I am still learning…
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