Thursday, June 3, 2010

What respose to anger?

What is your response when you feel unhappy or angry?

I might speak loudly, I might act impolite, I might show an angry face…

A few days ago, due to an issue that happened in a periodontist office, we felt unhappy. I have never seen Steve respond angrily to anyone. So, I asked him, “You didn’t get angry?” He said, “I think I am the same as my dad, when I am angry I become very quiet and calm. I was not happy, I couldn’t sleep well.”

“Why don’t you respond with anger?”

“If you argue with them, once they become defensive, then you have lost!”

That’s true; learn to be calm when angry!


Anonymous said...

This is Steve's cousin Karen. I clicked on your blog tonight just to check it out. I ended up going through the whole thing and really enjoyed reading it. Thanks for sharing all this for people to read.

I wanted to let you know that you take absolutely beautiful pictures! Everyone of them is perfect. I wish I could take pictures like that.

eHeart said...

Thank you, Karen.