India - Agra

Taj Mahal




From Agra Fort






After Agra Fort, an older man came to me, asking if I needed a ride. I thought it was by tuk-tuk, so we made a deal to Itmad-ud-Daula.
當我走出Agra Fort，一位老者走來問坐他的車。我以為是Tuk-tuk車，講好去Itmad-ud-Daula景區及價錢。


When I went with him to where the vehicle was parked, I found that was a trishaw.
來到他的車停處，才知道是人力車。


I was sitting on it and I felt guilty. A senior man serving me by pedaling his feet, and he needed to stand up to use his whole body weight to pedal on some inclined parts of the road. I really felt sorry for him.
坐在車上，我的心很愧疚，畢竟讓老者出力服務，尤其有點斜的路，他必須用站起全身的體力來踩，我真是於心不忍。


On the other hand, if I hadn’t let him take me, would he have any business and income?
On some inclined parts of the road, I got down and walked while he pushed his trishaw, until we were on flat road again.
不過另一方面，我若沒給他載，他不是沒生意收入嗎？
在幾段很斜的路，我下來步行，他推車，至到平路。我又上車。


When we arrived, he said he wanted to wait for me. I said, ‘don’t wait for me.’
到了，他說要等我，我說不要等我。

Itmad-ud-Daula



I came out, and he was there ‘greeting’ me…
我出來，他就來‘迎接’ 我了…


附加我的分享...

路上空氣的塵埃，附加了很多感受，飛塵扑扑。
我想我已嘗試處理，但不被接納。
一路思索想不出到底我那些言行得罪對方，引致不時我會被對方數落及謾罵。
我還要忍受壓抑嗎？
最后我毅然決定…我獨自旅遊最后的三天行程。

向好友略述了一些經歷，她問我，學到了什麼？
我說: “還是和丈夫去旅遊較好。”
她說: “不是。你很勇敢，你勇敢的脫離不舒服的狀況，去面對未知的環境。”
是的，反而那三天我很輕鬆。
當然，我回家后，與丈夫詳細談起這不舒服的經歷，希望他幫我找出我的錯誤點可在以后改進的。
他給我的答案是: “你沒有錯。那個人是要操縱控制。”
啊…的確。
比如一個‘團黨’，開始設立團黨者就像老大，那個人是第二個加入就自以為是老二，我是最后加入的，就得言聽計從（可是我以為只是三人行，可給意見）。一旦我有任何提議，及決意的話，老二就會在老大前數落我，及謾罵我。真是領教了。這是我最掃興的旅程，怎麼連旅伴也會出現‘政治’ 的現象。

嗯…不好意思，希望你不介意我的個人經歷分享。